Consider telling an important male figure how much you appreciate them.
I've never been so heartbroken and had an open heart at the same time. It doesn't seem the masculine and feminine are innately that different, It seems society festers a culture where men become entirely disassociated from their inner child and higher self at a very young age to the detriment of all. Leaving them almost entirely emotionally stunned while simultaneously valuing their societal worth by their income and social status as well as providing nature, am I crazy of is that the ultimate objectification?
What this breeds is "The Men That Ain't Shit" we all complain about. While the feminine energy is greatly attuned to their emotions and expressing them, we then become frustrated when they can't... and how could they? Men have been told their whole life its not ok to do do so breeding and perpetuated then the distorted masculine. Our true power comes from vulnerability but how could our men even get to the point where they realize that? Masculine energies from a young age are taught their validations comes from without rather than within leaving them to look outwards to find themselves leaving them searching for a false sense of self and security in the first place. Fulfillment will never be found without in the material world or titles only within, however they don't even know to look. Conviction is the most powerful presence because it cannot be falsified and its so rare to come by for obvious societal reasons. Masculines have been told their value comes not from who they are but rather what they can do, they grow then to disassociate their identity and their role and looking for outside validation that could only ever come within no matter the success we have all been told to value.
We see the world only through our level of perception and interpretation, making us more feminine attuned energies increasingly upset at the lack of communication and openness thus forcing the masculine to say things they may not even entirely begin to comprehend its emotional or societal implications because... well how could they? They're only reacting, not comprehending. So as they say things, lie, cheat, lash out etc. we perceive them to doing those things with the same malice a highly attuned emotional intelligent feminine energy would with cruel distortions meanwhile, not only are they sometimes only trying to find themselves and place in the world from their early disassociation we have all perpetuated for them, but they often can't even begin to comprehend why we perceive their actions to imply such intense malice. Many men been trained to be human doings not human beings and we are all guilty of festering this. Money isn't the route of all evil but to many of this men it is the biggest curse in their life as we judge from for whom they show the world to be not for whom their inner child or higher selves are. Making their success and ability to go through the motions their curse and our mental all consuming fury. Men especially successful ones then become imprisoned by the persona they've created as society has told them to and judged to the standards of the highest emotionally intelligent person they surround themselves with. I see this now in a way I never imagined to empathize with or even knew to comprehend.
Hug a man today in your life, and tell them how much you appreciate them, for their burden truly is heartbreaking.
Love & Light.